You’re bigger inside than the life you’re living.
Let’s fix the patterns that keep you small.
For high-achieving women who’ve done the inner work but are still caught in the same emotional loops — over-functioning, self-abandoning, and carrying mother-wounds they never chose.
Therapy helped you understand.
Coaching pushed you to improve.
But if you’re still shrinking, overthinking, or living for other people’s expectations
That’s not a mindset issue.
That’s a subconscious pattern.
Unconventional Psychologist
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Pattern Disruptor
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Trauma Alchemist
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Unconventional Psychologist ⋆˙⟡ Pattern Disruptor ⊹₊⟡⋆ Trauma Alchemist 〰️
I’m Hiba Balfaqih.
but you’ll know me as The Mindhacker.
I don’t help high-achieving women “manage” their patterns.
I help them break the ones that keep them small.
I’ve built this method for the exact moment when therapy stops working…
and the ache still stayed.
Mindhacking™ Unlocks What’s Still Stuck.
Therapy helped you understand the why.
You connected the dots back to childhood.
You finally had words for the pain but it didn’t shift how you feel.
Coaching pushed you forward.
You said yes to growth, set boundaries, made bold moves.
But it still felt like effort without ease.
Mindset gave you hope.
You told yourself a better life was possible.
But deep down, your body didn’t believe it yet.
Mindhacking™ gives you resolution.
One Method. Three Ways to Break Your Patterns.
Breakthroughs happen differently for every woman.
Choose the path that matches where you are in your unconditioning journey
Do you prefer solo reflection, group energy, or direct feedback?
Private Coaching
Deep, personalized pattern-breaking.
Weekly 1:1 sessions designed for high-achieving women ready to finally live the life they feel on the inside.
School of Mindhacking
The full method, at your pace.
A step-by-step system to break emotional conditioning, release inherited roles, and rebuild the identity that feels like you.
Reboot Retreats
Three days. A lifetime of liberation.
Immersive group work for women ready to break patterns fast and return home to their real selves.
Life After Mindhacking
Hi, I’m Hiba
and My Work Begins Where Most Healing Stops.
I didn’t learn this work from textbooks.
I learned it from survival.
From doing everything “right” — therapy, coaching, certifications —
and still feeling wrong.
From trying to out-achieve the ache inside me.
From performing “healed” , while quietly unraveling underneath it.
Until I stopped chasing insight... and started building integration.
That’s when everything shifted.
That’s what I teach now.
This method wasn’t built in a lab. It was built in the wreckage of my own life until I found freedom in my own mind and body.
Credentials matter.
But not more than truth.
And not more than embodiment.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes. MindHacking™ is particularly supportive for those living with complex trauma, unresolved trauma, or persistent post-traumatic stress.
Whether your experiences were big and dramatic, or subtle and prolonged, we help you untangle what your body has been carrying—often without you realizing it.
You don’t have to relive the pain to release it.
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It’s both structured and somatic, but never rigid.
You’ll follow the 7-step MindHacking™ method, which gives your healing a clear arc and purpose. Inside that framework, your experience is deeply personalized and grounded in your body’s wisdom.
We sometimes use intuitive or energy-based tools, but only when they support the nervous system—not as a spiritual bypass.
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Yes. That’s the point.
Insight alone doesn’t change old trauma responses.
MindHacking™ helps you rewire at the level of felt safety, not just intellectual understanding.Many clients say it’s the first thing that’s made them actually feel different—not just think differently.
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Then this may be the exact next step you need.
MindHacking™ was built for people who feel like nothing has worked. Whether you’ve experienced multiple trauma treatment failures or just can’t “outthink” your patterns anymore, this work meets you at the root—where change finally happens.
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You’re not alone—and you’re not broken.
Many people struggle with treatment-resistant trauma, or what some call therapy-resistant trauma.If you’ve been through multiple therapists, approaches, or healing programs—and still feel overwhelmed, numb, triggered, or just "off"—it’s likely your nervous system is still operating in survival mode.
MindHacking™ was designed for people like you.
People who’ve done all the “right things” and still haven’t found relief. -
It’s not clinical therapy. It’s not standard coaching either.
MindHacking™ is a somatic and subconscious method grounded in psychology, trauma science, and nervous system regulation. It’s trauma-informed, but not traditional.
We don’t just talk about the pattern—we work with where it lives in your body.Therapy helps you understand the wound.
This helps you stop bracing for it. -
Most modalities stop at the level of insight. This one doesn’t.
MindHacking™ goes deeper than CBT, mindset work, or even talk therapy.We work with experiential and somatic processes that help you feel safe enough to actually change—not just think about it.
If you’re a trauma non-responder or have experienced failed trauma therapies, this approach might finally speak to the parts of you that haven’t been reached yet. -
You could call it that—though we’d say it’s just what should’ve been part of your healing all along.
MindHacking™ blends subconscious reprogramming, nervous system regulation, and integrative trauma healing.
We pull from both science and intuition, structure and personalization.
If you’re looking for trauma recovery beyond CBT, hypnotherapy, or meditation, this is the kind of work that meets you there.
The Shadow Sessions Podcast
For the parts of you that never made it to therapy.
Raw, unfiltered conversations from the edges of healing —
Hosted by Hiba, a trauma alchemist and unconventional psychologist, this podcast doesn’t sugarcoat the process. It’s not about fixing people. It’s about hearing them.
Because sometimes, the most powerful healing begins in the shadows.
Get early access + behind-the-scenes episodes before anyone else.
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Healing doesn’t just happen in sessions — it shows up in everyday moments, too.
Follow along for behind-the-scenes insights, raw reflections, and real talk about transformation, nervous system healing, and living freely.
See What Hiba’s Sharing in Real Time.
Let’s Make This the Last Loop You Ever Repeat.
Whether you start with a session, a retreat, the podcast, or the school —
this is your sign to stop circling the same patterns.