The Permissionless Life Retreat
A private retreat for those done waiting for permission.
March 21 to 25, 2026
This is not a Confidence Retreat
The women who come here don’t lack confidence.
They lack internal permission.They are the ones who:
keep it together
stay composed
regulate themselves quickly
anticipate reactions
manage situations before they escalate
They don’t fall apart.
They hold everything in.
And that discipline has worked.
Professionally. Socially. Relationally.
It has also been costing them.
When you learn to hold it together early, you also learn:
to pause before wanting
to soften your no
to stay reasonable when something is wrong
to explain yourself before choosing
You call it maturity.
Your nervous system learned it as safety.
You didn’t lose your voice.
You learned when it was safer not to use it.
This retreat doesn’t praise that adaptation.
It questions it.
The Cost No One Talks About
What This Work Actually Changes
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WHAT RUNS THE SYSTEM (BEFORE)
Internalized obedience mistaken for wisdom
Emotional self-management labeled as regulation
Anxiety rooted in over-responsibility
Guilt attached to desire and choice
Exhaustion from holding everything together
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WHAT SHIFTS (AFTER)
You stop negotiating with yourself
Guilt stops driving decisions
Wanting feels less dangerous
Your yes and no arrive faster
Emotional labor drops quietlyA transformation. A shift.
A release.
Internal authority.
This work doesn’t add anything to you.
It removes what trained you to override yourself.
This retreat is likely for you if:
• You learned early how to hold yourself together
• You are usually the composed one in the room
• You regulate your emotions quickly and quietly
• You pause before wanting, asking, or choosing
• You feel guilt when prioritizing yourself
• You manage situations so nothing “gets out of hand”
• You rarely fall apart — and you’re tired because of it
• You’ve done therapy or inner work and gained insight
• You still feel constrained in ways you can’t explain
You don’t feel broken.
You feel contained.
That’s the pattern.
Does this sound like you?
How the Retreat Is Structured
(This is not a journey. It’s a dismantling.)
Each day is designed to interrupt a specific layer of obedience-based conditioning.
Nothing is symbolic for the sake of it.
Every practice serves a diagnostic or retraining function.
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Day 1: Pattern Exposure
You identify the obedience-based patterns shaping your choices, especially around responsibility, money, and self-restraint. Through sensory limitation, mapping, and reflection, what you’ve normalized becomes visible.
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Day 2: Removing External Authority
Silence and structured expression reveal how much of your inner dialogue is inherited rather than chosen. You separate your voice from expectations, roles, and emotional responsibility for others.
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Day 3: Nervous-System Reconditioning
Somatic regulation and embodied choice practice retrain how your body responds to wanting, saying no, and deciding. Choice begins to feel safer than compliance.
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Day 4: Integration and Internal Authority
You consolidate the shifts into daily life. Less internal negotiation. Faster yes and no. No new identity — just clearer access to choice without self-management.
Spain * Malaga
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Spain * Malaga *
Hidden in the mountains of the Lecrín Valley, this private Andalusian retreat feels like stepping into a softer version of life. Surrounded by gardens, silence, and mountain air, the days move slowly here—morning light through stone walls, long lunches by the pool, yoga with the hills as your backdrop. Just 25 minutes from Granada and 30 minutes from the sea, it offers the perfect blend of escape and beauty.
This is a place to exhale, rest your nervous system, and remember how good it feels to do absolutely nothing—and enjoy every second of it.
Registration Details
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Location
Malaga , Spain
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Dates
March 21 - 25, 2026
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Open To
Women ready for emotional healing.
FAQs
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Most women who come here have done therapy. Some have done a lot of it.
Therapy often builds insight, emotional literacy, and regulation.
This work addresses conditioning.If you understand your patterns but still feel constrained in your choices, it’s not because you need more insight. It’s because your nervous system learned that compliance equals safety.
This retreat works directly with that layer.
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That’s unlikely — but the change may not look the way transformation is usually marketed.
This work changes:
how quickly you recognize patterns
how much effort it takes to choose differently
how your body responds to wanting or saying no
Most women don’t leave with a dramatic story.
They leave noticing they stop overriding themselves.That’s a real shift.
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No.
The work is psychologically and somatically grounded.
There is no belief system to adopt and no identity to step into.While the environment is intentional and calming, nothing is symbolic for comfort or performance.
If you’re wary of spiritual bypassing, that concern is respected here.
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The retreat runs for four full days.
It’s designed to give enough time for patterns to surface, be interrupted, and integrated without rushing or overwhelming your nervous system.
This is not a weekend intensive.
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The retreat location has 6 rooms. The rooms are sharing size. There will be 2 sisters per room and that’s how the best friendships are formed!
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This retreat is right for you if reading this page made something click, not something flare up.
You don’t need to feel excited or certain.
Most women who come don’t.What they usually notice is recognition.
You recognize yourself in the descriptions.
You recognize the cost of holding it together.
You recognize that insight alone hasn’t shifted how choice feels in your body.If the page felt confronting but clarifying, that’s a good sign.
If it felt motivating, inspirational, or emotionally charged, this is probably not your space.
The application process exists to support this discernment. It’s not about convincing you to come. It’s about making sure the container fits.
If you’re still unsure, take your time. Read the page again. Notice whether you feel pressure or clarity.
This work doesn’t require urgency.
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Your investment will be $4,950 (USD) for a shared room with an entire full board, all retreat activities, and, of course, exclusive access to Hiba during this time.
Early Bird Price: $4,350 (Save $600 if you book before Feb 10, 2026) -
Absolutely! We understand that embarking on this transformative journey should be accessible to all. We provide an easy 3-payment plan: allowing you to pay for the retreat in 3 easy monthly payments.
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Note that there is no cooling-off period after placing an order. If, at any time or for whatever reason, you decide you do not wish to attend the retreat, you will not be eligible for a refund.
We may honor extreme cases that need to cancel such as illness or death in the family. In these cases we may issue a refund but that is left at our sole discretion